Ep 61 What You Most Need To Hear About Getting Divorced

Hi, my name is Elise Lebeau, I’m the Left Brain Intuitive, and today I have an intuitive message for you about what you most need to hear on getting divorced.

So I feel that you have been in a sea of churning and feeling like a little cork, you know, that’s just bobbing up and down on these big huge waves, and you’re very small compared to the big huge waves. And that can be intimidating and you can feel lost to the point where you, you don’t even know where you are.

You don’t even know how you feel. You’re just always on fire, always bleeding. And there’s a lot of pain in this.

But this journey, it’s like a passage, you know, over a sea that is, that is going through a major storm. And the only way to get to the other side is to get through this.

However, what you most need to hear today is that it’s only when you focus on the big picture, that you feel overwhelmed. So if you think about the divorce with capital letters, all capital letters, and all the things that will need to happen for you to get on the other side, that’s overwhelming.

You’re a little cork in the big sea and there’s a big huge wave because there’s a lot of stuff that’s not under your control. You can’t control what other people are going to do. You can’t control that. So that makes you feel powerless. However, if what you’re focusing on today is what needs to get done today, especially what you have to get done.

I feel that you’ve been focusing a lot on what other people are doing. He needs to do this. He needs to do that. Whether it’s the attorney or the husband or the children, it doesn’t matter. But I see that there’s a lot of situation where you’re focusing on what other people need to do.

And there is no power there for you. You will feel powerless and small and broken.

Every time you think these thoughts, every time you focus on what other people have to do, that’s not going to bring you into alignment. What is going to bring you into alignment is when you ask yourself the question, what can I do today

about the next step in this divorce.

All of a sudden, you’re not a tiny cork in a big, huge sea with massive waves. You’re on a lake and you have a canoe and you’re just paddling around. The proportions have changed because of two reasons.

First, you don’t feel disempowered. So the big waves are gone because the big waves represent your sense of disempowerment where you focus on what other people have to do.

You have no power there. It’s always going to make you feel bad. So if we take that away, and we don’t focus so much on what other people have to do. It takes the big waves away. That’s why you’re on a lake now. A lake is much smaller than the sea, proportionately speaking, you’re not as small.

You’re much bigger now. The other thing is that if you focus on what you can do, it means you have a paddle now. Instead of a cork that’s just bobbing with no way to direct, you have a paddle. And you can decide which way you’re going. And this is the second big thing that you need to hear today. Is that when you focus on the thing that you can do

for the next step of the divorce, you’re immediately going to feel relief.

That breath, the, ah, that is relief. And that is your intuitive compass telling you you’re going in the right direction. It’s improving. You’re realigning with who you really are. You’re going to be able to hear yourself more because it’s quieter on this lake. And then you’re going to be able to take your paddle and go in the direction that you want.

It does not matter what other people want and other people are doing. There’s no power for you there. But if you don’t know what you want, then that’s a problem.

You’re going to end up going where they want to go. And I don’t want that for you. I want you to be on the other side of that divorce and say, wow, I really did a great job there.

I knew what I wanted and I kept going in that direction. Ah, yes, yes.

All right. That’s all I’m getting for you today.

I post all of these helpful, intuitive messages on my intuitive community for logical women. I would love to have you there!